Okinawa | March 29, 2016
Hey baby, I appreciate you giving me your support and a daily boost to get out there and do good things. It means a lot to me that you continue to encourage me…Sometimes sweetly, sometimes not, but you always know just what to say to keep me motivated.
I got the information to get the paperwork done and I am working on it. D has the same issue as us with getting paid and it not showing on Citibank…While I was at finance, he called Citibank to find out what the deal is…Which is that it takes several days for the army to make the payment for it to post. And the Citibank site was not updating over the weekend for some reason. He called and got bounced around until he finally talked to an operator who told him what was going on. They could see things, but the website was not updating right. I have not checked the statement today. I asked about having someone to take me to the oral surgery and I got told that they would send anyone that I wanted from the shop, or anyone that would go from outside the shop, but to talk to the oral surgery people first and see if they can put me up in the hospital seeing as how that is a concern of mine.
I am puzzled by what I can do to help you out. I HAVE to take some of the stress off of you; I HAVE to make things easier on you. I am just puzzled by what you can give me.
Concerns with Recommendations:
I am concerned by how much stress is on you. And how you can’t seem to (and this is going to come out as condescending but it’s not) relax and try to find a nothing box. One of the things that were taught to me in the cardiac rehab was meditation. I use it when I am angry (when I can get away and take a few breaths) or when something happens at work that really gets my goat…I find a way to slow myself down so I can focus and so I don’t blow up. I really think that you need to find that. Easier said than done and like I said, I know it is coming across as kind of shitty…You never seem to have a chance to take a breath. But I really hope that you can find the time.
Wishes, Hopes and Dreams:
I hope you have a great day today and I hope that you don’t have any issues today that are overwhelming. You deserve a good relaxing day. I miss you so much and I wish I were home helping you out now. Love me
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